Friday, September 6, 2019

ugghhh huh

I don't get why people have to pretend you are a bad person.. so they don't feel guilty about the things they did  to you..and them being a shit person! God forbid they be accountable for their bullshit. Oh wait ! I already did that post.. 😛
 The moral of that and most other stories I spew out in this blog.. are that one CAN NOT Febreeze bullshit ! It is still bullshit no matter what you sprinkle on it bitches. Get real already Mo Fo's.. for fucks sake batman.
And this though:
Ppl there is HUGE difference between empathy and sympathy!! Let me save you some time googling this.
* Sympathy is when you feel and show compassion towards someone and or their situation.
* Empathy is when you UNDERSTAND their situation etc.. because you have been in that scenario/ situation before yourself. YOU CAN COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY ARE FEELING AND OR ARE  MIGHT BE GOING THROUGH !!!!
You might wanna think about that before you just start spouting shit out there. People get upset over that shit real quick.. especially these days !! Just a thought.. figured I would share.. since most people still aren't grasping the concept !
The phrase that comes to mind right now is.. Some people are just beautifully wrapped boxes of shit.. well and most aren't even wrapped nicely these days.. cuz they don't care.. no one fucking cares anymore ! GGGrrr...
In my mind.. there are still 2 different kinds of people out there.. ones raised on love.. others raised on survival.. and that affects and outlines the paths that will be taken. IT JUST IS ! You may disagree and that's ok.. but, at least think about that for a second.. you will see.. I am pretty much nailing it on the head there!
Time for todays things to remember when you are going through rough patches:
* Everything can and will change again
* You can overcome anything if it is meant to be
*You should try to focus on things as being a learning experience
* Things that even you don't want or don't get.. can be a blessing.. one never knows
* Remember to have fun.. we need fun in our lives.. that is why I try to keep  my humor and do the crazy things I do.
*Give yourself a fucking break
*Other people really aren't worth you worrying over all the time !!!!!
*And try to think to yourself daily .. that even though things are shit.. there is and can be beauty out there too. Try to keep that head up and somehow embrace not only the suck but the THANKFULNESS of things too !